Showing posts with label reading. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reading. Show all posts

Thursday, 24 September 2020

Book thoughts, The dressmaker’s gift by Fiona Valpy

The blurb: A gripping story of three young women faced with impossible choices. How will history -and their families- judge them? Paris,1940. With the city occupied by Nazis, three young seamstresses go about their lives as best they can. But all three are hiding secrets. War scarred Mireille is fighting with the Resistance; Claire has been seduced by a German officer; and Vivienne’s involvement is something she can’t reveal to either of them. Two generations later, Claire’s English granddaughter Harriet arrives in Paris, rootless and adrift, desperate to find a connection with her past. Living and working in the same building on the Rue Cardinale, she learns the truth about her grandmother - and herself - and unravels a family history that is darker and more painful than she ever imagined. In wartime, the three seamstresses face impossible choices when their secret activities put them in grave danger. Brought together by loyalty, threatened by betrayal, can they survive history’s darkest era without being torn apart?

My thoughts:  I struggled to get into this one at first, although I can’t be sure if that was because of the book itself, or because I was in a pretty bad place, pain wise with my Crohn’s at the time. So I feel like this is one I will need to go back and reread at some point when, I’m fairing a little better. 
The fact that I do want to go back and reread says a lot for this book though, and I actually devoured the last half pretty quickly and was touched by the character’s strength and determination, in the face of horrendous treatment and seemingly insurmountable odds. 
This authors character development wasn’t as strong as I would have liked, the three seamstresses personality’s do seem to bleed together quite a bit, with little to really distinguish them. And Harriet seems a little pointless to the story, until the last few chapters, where she is used to highlight the struggles of women in France in world war 2 and the effect their trauma may have carried through the generations. 
That said though I do feel that this book carry’s a beautiful message and one that I found very relatable and uplifting, given my present battle with Crohn’s and the horrible chemo, they are pumping into my body. 
In one of Harriet’s chapters, as she is piecing together all she has learned we read “Claire and Vivi showed how much the human spirit can endure: brutality, cruelty, inhumanity - all of these can be borne. It is the loss of those you love that is unbearable.”
And she is right of course, we are capable of enduring far more than we ever imagined possible, and it’s through these trials that we grow and become stronger. And Fiona (the author of this book) seems to have an incredible grasp of human nature, the ways we doubt ourselves and the way in which despite those doubts we are able to over come seemingly insurmountable odds. 
And the three seamstresses all show this in their own way, as each one battles feelings of self doubt, guilt, and remorse, while continuing to fight to survive, in a cruel and inhumane world. Putting themselves at risk over and over again, as they fought against the evil that was all around them, doing seemingly small things, that made a big difference, not necessarily to bringing the end of the war, but certainly to a few of the battered souls who found themselves caught up in it, and desperate for salvation. 
As is expressed again  in one of  Harriet’s end chapters that reads : “They were ordinary people, but the extraordinary times that they lived in saw them step up to become extraordinary too. No matter how tough it got, no matter how dark the night, they never gave in.”
In today’s modern world, it is hard to believe that we could endure and survive as they did back in the 1940’s. The recent world pandemic of COVID - 19 , certainly hasn’t portrayed the human race in the same light as those facing the horrors of world war 2. We have moaned and complained, at simply being asked to stay at home, and wear masks, not caring that our selfishness may put others at risk. While our ancestors, waved their loved ones off to war, not knowing if they would ever see them again. And the women stepped up and worked in munition factories and the land army and went across into Europe and desperately fought to save the lives of those sent to fight for us, enduring things we can’t even begin to imagine. 
But I like to think that Harriet is right when she says “I know I have a little of her courage. I know, if I am called upon, I will stand up, as she did, and turn to face danger. I won’t run away. I will fight for what is most important. For life.” 
And that’s the reality isn’t it, for every bad person out there in the world, there are thousands of ordinary people who are capable of extraordinary things. And as history has shown, it’s those ordinary people who can change the world. 
And it’s that message of hope, strength and love that Fiona hammers home so well and which makes this book a beautiful and heartwarming read. That reminds us of what those who came before us sacrificed, in order that we can now live in a world that is no longer suffocated by the hateful minds behind the atrocities of world war 2.
And though we can never truly erase all the evil from this world, as Fiona shows by illustrating the hate in Harriets own times, through the terrorist attacks that plagued France and the rest of the world, not so many years ago, we are, as a whole, bigger and stronger than that evil and that is why it is so important that we never forget. 
So yes, I recommend that you not only read this book, but share this story with others, to keep alive what all our ancestors sacrificed for us and future generations. To help those struggling in whatever form, be it to fight for their rights, or for life, as they battle physical or mental illness, or through the loss of those they love, to stay strong and keep on keeping on. 
I will certainly be reading it again in the future, when I can fully absorb it in its entirety. 
Love and hugs Joss xx

P.S. apologies for any errors I may have made in the writing of this and any future posts. My Crohns and the chemo medication I am on, can make it difficult for my brain to function  properly, meaning I muddle words sometimes and misspell things among other errors. 
So please bare with me and know that I am trying my best  and remember to stay healthy cause the alternative sucks XX 

Friday, 8 January 2016

My week in review.

It's been a bit of an emotional roller coaster of a week for me.

It's been tough getting Kye back to doing his school work after the Christmas holidays and it has been a real battle of wills between us. 

He's still not getting much done, but after some great advice from my hubby and a close friend I am trying not to let it get to me too much.

The problem is that I freak out to much about failing Kye. Having a child is such a huge responsibility, ensuring that they do well in life, learn to be respectful and kind to others and grow up to be happy and well rounded can seem like a huge and daunting task. For most there is a degree of a reprieve, when it comes to sending them to school. It's the one area where we can pass the buck to a degree, where we can blame another if they fail to do well with the education. 

Knowing that Kye's school was failing him and that we needed to pull him out, seemed like a huge and very scary choice at the time, but in reflection I think that was the easy part. The hard part is being responsible for his education in full, along with all the other aspects of being a parent. 

It's tough, but I know we'll find a way in the end. We always do. I also know that despite my sons problems, he is an incredibly smart kid, he may use his smarts in the wrong way right now, but we'll keep working on that, little by little, day by day until we figure out what works best for him.

Will get the test. A diognosis, and work from their to help him in every way we can.

In the meantime we'll take each day as it comes and I'll try not to get to stressed out or worried. 

It's not all stress and worry this week; however, my planning and scheduling around my blog posts and reading schedule is going well. Working on my WIP has fallen by the wayside this week, but I've decided not to worry about it and aim for a slightly bigger word count next week. Using this week to get on with my extensive reading list.

I've had a cold bug most of the week and my back pain has been unbearable. So reading is a relaxing way for me to unwind and always something that brings me joy. 

Sometimes, I guess we just have to give ourselves a bit of a break. 

I'm so grateful for my husband right now though, he has been a massive support and kept me smiling. 

We had a bit of a talk last night and I knew something had been playing on his mind and asked him about it. We're coming up for 13 years together and he's so important to me, that it bothers me to see him feeling low. 

He's tired of working, which I can relate to and need something to focus on that he enjoys I between. Of course he has trample, his beloved traction engine, but he's a man with big dreams and he is longing for a bigger project. Turns out he has had his eyes on a project to build a half scale engine from scratch, but figured it was to expensive for us to accomplish. 

I disagree, I think it's possible for us to do anything if we set our minds to it and so I told him if that's what he wants then will save up the money and get it done. If there is one thing I've learned over the years, you've got to chase happiness where you can and if anyone deserves to achieve his dreams it's Dan. He's been such an awesome husband and so supportive of my dreams. There is nothing I wouldn't do for him. 

So, our saving journey begins, I can't wait to see Dan start to put it all together. He's so talented when it comes to stuff like this and I know he'll feel so proud of himself once it's done. 

So that's my week, it's had its ups and downs, but that's life sometimes. 

I hope you've all had a lovely week and that your weekends are great too. 

Love and hugs all
Joss xx

Wednesday, 25 September 2013

What's up Wednesday


It's What's up Wednesday time again. This is my second What's up Wednesday, so I am very excited to be back for another week. 
 
What's up Wednesday is run by the lovely Jaime Morrow. You can check out her blog here. It's a really simple blog fest. Each week we answers the questions below and you get to learn a little about what we are up to. So, lets get started. 
  1. WHAT I'M READING
  2. WHAT I'M WRITING
  3. WHAT INSPIRES ME, RIGHT NOW
  4. WHAT ELSE I'VE BEEN UP TO
1) What I'm reading:



I'm currently still on my Martina Cole session, although Dangerous Lady, which I am currently reading is the last one on my shelf at the moment, so I will be moving on to a new author soon. I have been so busy that I haven't had time to read much of it yet, but what I have read I like. As I can't tell you all that much, I'll give you the back cover blurb and move on. 

Bestselling author Martina Cole's explosive first novel of corruption and violence.

No one thinks a seventeen year-old girl can take on the hard men of London's gangland, but it's a mistake to underestimate Maura Ryan. She's tough, clever, and beautiful, which makes her one very dangerous lady.

Together, she and her brother Michael are unbeatable, but notoriety has its price. The police are determined to put Maura away, once and for all, and not everyone in the family thinks that's such a bad idea. When it comes to the crunch, Maura has to face the pain of lost love in her past and the dangerous lady discovers her heart is not made entirely of stone.

2) What I'm writing:

This week, I have mainly been blogging. There has been a bit of editing on Memory Book; about four chapters, but ultimately blogging and reading others blogs has pretty much been keeping me busy. 

3) What inspires me right now:

The kindness and generosity of others is really inspiring me now. If you check out my blog post from yesterday "How things change" the reason why will be clear. 

I have also been inspired by little Elliot Prior, a 4 year old, British boy who stood up to terrorists in Nairobi's Westgate Mall.
 
This little cutie told one of the terrorists, as he stood in front of his injured mum, "You're a bad man. Let us leave." What a brave little man he is and what an amazing inspiration, too. 

4) What else I've been up to:

Mainly this week, I have been trying to get my mobility scooter back. If you haven't heard about this yet you can read more about the situation in my blog post from yesterday "How things change" . Thankfully, everything is sorted out with that now and although I have not been able to get my original mobility scooter back, I have (thanks to the kindness of those at Launceston Mobility) been able to get a suitable replacement, which is a huge relief and a very big weight of my shoulders. 
It has been a very tough month this month and I am glad all the worry is finally coming to an end. 

Well, that's my What's up Wednesday. How about you? 

Have a lovely week, what is left of it, and thank you for stopping by. 

Love and hugs, 
Joss xxx 

Sunday, 22 September 2013

Express yourself

        

          It’s Monday; well, it will be in a few hours, lol. I am publishing this a little early. It's a productive day. At any rate, Monday means it's time for an Express Yourself post.

Express Yourself is an awesome, weekly blog hop that is hosted by the lovely Jackie and Dani, in which, each week, the entrants answers a specific question; then, we all hop from blog to blog reading everyone’s entries.
           
          If you would like to join in with this blog hop or simply check out all the other awesome blog posts for it. Then click here.

What authors would you love to have lunch with?

Well, my first thought, when I saw this question was all of them. I love talking to other authors and hearing about their work progress; but, then I assumed that might require a space, the likes of which it would be very difficult to find. So, I thought what about a huge banquet hall and just as many writers as we could cram in, but what about those we couldn’t, how mean would I feel then?

So, in the end, I decided that I would try to be a little more specific. I am going to allow myself a party of six. I will be one of the six, because it wouldn’t be me having lunch with them, otherwise. That leaves five writers to pick from the hundreds that I love. That’s a task and a half.



One of my first thoughts was Daphne Du Maurier. Imagine the stories she would have to tell you about her writing career and her time at Jamaica Inn, plus she loves Bodmin moor and was inspired by it, just as I was; however, Daphne Du Maurier is no longer alive. I wouldn’t mind a ghost at the table, but it might make the rest of us feel a little guilty, as she sat and watched us, tucking into a meal, while she just watched on.

The living it is then.

So, I was trying to think about this logically. First, I thought of all the writers I loved. That list; however, proved far too extensive. My conclusion, then; choose those that may be of help with either my current works in progress or future works.

And this is what I came up with:



Terry Pratchett - Not only is he an amazing writer, but he has Alzheimer’s. As I am writing Memory book at present, which is about a man with Alzheimer’s, Terry Pratchett would be able to give me not only writing tips, but his own first-hand experience with the disease. His fantastical worlds would also be fun to explore and dissect, which makes him, at least in my opinion, an awesome dinner companion.


Martina Cole - When it comes to strong characters and tough stories, Martina is an expert. She deals with topics most avoid and her characters are beautifully crafted; so, if I am looking to learn about realistic characters and polish my skills here, even more, then Martina will be another ideal dinner guest.

Jane Wenham Jones - Why? Well, because every party needs some humour and she is one of the funniest writers I know; that and she writes a whole host of amazing books, including books on writing that miraculously make you cry with laughter instead of from boredom, which is rare for educational books. With Jane at my party, I can get lots of great tips and lots of great laughs, as well.

Karen Amanda Hooper - I really need her to publish more of her Sea creature memoir series, preferably before she releases more Kindrily; not because I don’t love her Kindrily books, because I do, but I am a serious addict, when it comes to her Merfolk and Selkies. I’m hoping, if I provide enough alcohol, I’ll be able to get her to agree to, oh, I dunno, another 5 or 6 sea creature memoirs before she gets started on the Kindrily again.

Francine Rivers - Another author, who creates amazingly realistic characters; but the reason for choosing her today is to do with her favoured genre, Christian fiction. In memory book, Charlie struggles with God and faith. His wife, a devoted Christian, passed on her love of God to her son, who went on to become a vicar. Charlie; however, can’t forgive God for not only taking his wife, but allowing her to suffer, so long and painfully, with her cancer. Francine, I am sure, could give me so many great tips about bringing God into a fictional novel on top of character development and the creation of an unforgettable story.


So, there you have it, my five guests for my little dinner party; all picked with care and consideration. Now, there’s a first for me, and Terry Pratchett should be in his element with all these lovely ladies for company. :) 

What writers would you like to have to dinner and why?

Love and hugs,
Joss xx