Monday, 11 January 2016
This day in history, January 11 first recorded lottery in England
Friday, 8 January 2016
My week in review.
Wednesday, 6 January 2016
IWSG post.
I haven't done one of these posts for a long time, but figured what with it being a New year, I needed to get back into some good habits when it comes to my blogging.
So, how am I feeling at the moment about my writing? Well, if I'm honest, overwhelmed is probably the best word.
Since I started home educating my son last year, my writing has really taken a hit. Trying to find the time to sit and work, on top of lesson planning and 24/7 with my son has been a real struggle and often when I get to the point of actually working on my current WIP, I am so exhausted that I worry what is actually going down on paper is just pure drivel.
For this reason, I have tried to keep it simple by setting myself a really simple goal of just getting 6,000 words done a week. I figure that by keeping it simple, I won't feel too overwhelmed and will actually achieve a higher word count because of this.
When my son first started school a fair few years back, I really felt that my writing career could finally take off and I guess in a way it did. I mean, I finished Insane Reno and got it published which was an amazing and incredibly exciting experience, but having to pull my son back out of school, because of his behaviour and the fact that he was getting more and more behind in his education in that environment, has pretty much reverted me back to where I was, when he was a toddler. Only then having my son around all the time was nothing but joy.
I love my son to pieces, but I sometimes do feel resentful for his poor behaviour and the fact that my time is now spent constantly trying to coax him into learning. Each day is a battle of wills and good days are often few and far between.
The thing is, I choose to be a mother and sometimes that means you have to do things you'd rather not. Like pushing your career to the back burner.
We are currently in the process of trying to work out what exactly is going on with my son. We're pretty sure he is on the autistic spectrum and so I am hoping with a diagnosis we may find ways to work with him that will make things a little easier.
Currently, most of my days are spent trying to figure out ways to get him interested in learning, whilst trying to develop lesson plans that are simple and easy for him to do, yet at the same time ensuring that he is actually learning what he ought to be. This isn't easy, especially when dealing with his constant outburst, which can see him lashing out at me both physically and verbally.
In essence, I am just exhausted. I feel like a failure not only as a writer but as a mother and I also feel incredibly alone.
So that's me, I'm afraid it's not a very positive post this time, but it's my reality right now, so what can I do.
love and hugs all
Joss xx
Saturday, 3 January 2015
Organised chaos
We had a very Cornish approach to life my husband and I. We lived by the "dreckly" mantra. Which essentially means "Some point in the future." Word of warning, if my lovely hubby ever tells you "I'll get to it dreckly," you may be in for a very long wait, like a year,two, ten or...
Thursday, 1 January 2015
New Year, New goals!
- The terrible final takeaway last night failed to provide the joy it should and thus must be repeated but with something from a better takeaway.
- The massive collection of Christmas goodies still yet to be devoured
- The fact that technically the Christmas holidays aren’t over until hubby and son are back at work/school.
- Lose weight, although I am going to wait until I am able to get back on my stronger pain meds, before starting my diet. Being on the new anxiety meds, my doctor wanted to reduce my pain meds just while my body got used to the new meds I was taking not only for my anxiety but my IBS, so I am hopeful that when I go back to see him on the 8th of this month, he’ll give me back my stronger pain killers and I can start looking to lose weight. This also gives me time to continue enjoying the remaining Christmas fair and to get a decent take away in before my diet starts, that eradicating some of my excuses. J
- Get more organised. I have already gotten started with this by buying a Filofax type planner, with a calendar section for my writing/blogging as well as one for everything else in life. I’m hoping to post a blog post every day and all going well, I plan to write all my post on the Monday so the rest of the week can be focused on my current WIP and commenting on all you lovely peoples blogs.
- Finishing the first Rehabilitation girls books
ready for publication. This will be a big challenge for me as it will be the
first time I edit my own book using Grammarly, fingers crossed it’s as good as
they claim. J
we were playing around with the colours and mood for the cover on this and like this sort of look although preferably with a much better model than myself in the finished product lol
- Continue to try and work through my anxieties and get out more. I’ll be starting on that Sunday I believe, when I go with hubby to one of his steam engine shows. I would like to say I am excited but to be honest I am not really feeling it at the moment as my IBS is playing up after too much fizzy wine last night and my back isn’t fairing much better, but oh well
- Work on being more focused and less distracted. It does seem a shame to abandon my whole, "oh look a bunny!" thing when I have got so good at it though. :)
- I'd really like to get involved with some more blog hops this year also, so if you know of any good ones, please let me know in the comments. Thank you.
So that’s my New Year goals along with my 2014 fails and successes. How did you do with your goals in 2014 and have you set any new ones for 2015? Let me know in the comments.
Friday, 7 March 2014
Celebrate the small stuff.
I found a video on You Tube that gives a good idea of the book. It's a fan made book trailer. They did an amazing job of it.
We'd ordered him a dragon from Amazon but it didn't come in time so on the Wednesday night we were in a mad rush to make him one. There were wings to but the refused to stay on his scooter so we had to opt for just the head. I think we did and okay toothless, (book version not film version, who is decidedly toothy but whatever) what do you think?
here's the book cover where you can see the book version of toothless that I copied for the head.
Here's the lovely wammy :)
Saturday, 25 January 2014
Changes!
Wednesday, 1 January 2014
New year intent
Tuesday, 1 October 2013
Nick Wilford, Freelance editing!
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Today, I am having a special guest post from the lovely Nick Wilford. Nick is starting a new editing service to help us lovely writers polish up our finished novels and short stories; in fact, pretty much anything, I'll definitely be saving his button on the side of my page. Right, that's enough from me. Lets see what Nick has to say. :)
Nick Wilford:
Wednesday, 25 September 2013
What's up Wednesday
- WHAT I'M READING
- WHAT I'M WRITING
- WHAT INSPIRES ME, RIGHT NOW
- WHAT ELSE I'VE BEEN UP TO
No one thinks a seventeen year-old girl can take on the hard men of London's gangland, but it's a mistake to underestimate Maura Ryan. She's tough, clever, and beautiful, which makes her one very dangerous lady.
Together, she and her brother Michael are unbeatable, but notoriety has its price. The police are determined to put Maura away, once and for all, and not everyone in the family thinks that's such a bad idea. When it comes to the crunch, Maura has to face the pain of lost love in her past and the dangerous lady discovers her heart is not made entirely of stone.
Love and hugs,
Sunday, 22 September 2013
Express yourself
Express Yourself is an awesome, weekly blog hop that is hosted by the lovely Jackie and Dani, in which, each week, the entrants answers a specific question; then, we all hop from blog to blog reading everyone’s entries.
What authors would you love to have lunch with?
The living it is then.
Thursday, 21 July 2011
30 day prompt challenge
Sunday, 27 March 2011
Jumpin' Jitters writing cafe.

We now have an official blog for our Jumpin’ Jitters writers cafe, here you can see what we are up to in world (second life) see the weekly picture prompts, find out about up and coming events and learn more about Jumpin’ Jitters, encase you decide to come and take a look in world.
To take a look at the blog, (currently under construction) you can do so HERE!
here's the slurl to visit us in world, just post it in local chat and click the link for a landmark
http://slurl.com/secondlife/Gyachung/47/179/90
The cafe, here you can chat with friends, host poetry readings, and enjoy a virtual bite to eat as well as checking out the weekly picture prompt.
The reading room, curl up with a one of the classic books provided for your entertainment, share your book reviews, read an extract from one of our novelist's books, and watch there word count grow, read some of the poems writen by other jumpin' jitters writers, come along to a book club meet or simply, relax a while.
Jumpin' jitters garden.
come along to our daily writers meet, to work on your latest project, or share ideas and get inspiration, chec out the writen prompt books for ideas or add your own written prompts to enspire others, take part in our write off, share your blogs, get ideas for characters names, share your creative writing or read others.
we're open 24/7 so everyone is welcome round the clock, you can also contact jossie Tyrellium or CJ Tyrellium in world, and arange to host your own event or poetry reading.
and not forgetting the word games provided so you can play your friends in world































