Like most women, when it came to marriage I dreamed of the perfect wedding and all the wonderful ways it could happen.
The reality wasn’t anything like that at all. Because well I’m not rich and neither was Dan lol.
But I’m not sure I really regret it, Yes I would have loved the big flashy dress and amazing venue, and all the big cake and all the other fancy things, but I’m not sure I’d have loved the debt so much, that that sort of wedding would have left us in, or for that matter would I have felt good about spending out enough money for a house for one day.
Because the reality is that the most important thing about your wedding day should be marrying the guy of your dreams, even if we sometimes get that man wrong lol.
Because let’s face it that happens.
So I’m glad we took the best option for us and went simple, however had I have been able to afford to do it properly without getting into debt or having to scrimp and save like crazy then sure I’d have done the whole big fancy thing.
So I was wondering what you thoughts were on this subject?
My wedding day was a simple registry office, heading over to the castle grounds for photos after, and then to the pub with friends, the honey moon one night in a local hotel overlooking the beach.